Many people don't realize that bringing circumstances into their lives is mostly an internal exercise. We in Western culture are so focused on the external showing of value that we miss the importance of our internal actions, thoughts and desires.
In truth, the Law of Attraction reacts to our internal processes. It does not act to change them. Can one tuning fork cause another tuning fork to change its tune?
If we spent as much time intentionally living as we do reacting to what we believe is independent of us, the world would be a different place.